Pay attention to your internal self talk.
Does it hold positive or negative energy?
Say it out loud, would you say it to a friend?
If it’s full of shame and negativity then reframe!
“I'm learning to be a good friend to myself .“
Rinse and repeat!
You are worth it!
1. Listen to Your GPS
Our bodies have a built in GPS that will alert us in the way of anxiety, chest tightness, stomach discomfort and insomnia. If we are heading into territory that will throw us off the path of peace, let your GPS direct you!
2. Keep it Simple
When in doubt, follow the path of peace. Don't do anything until you feel a sense of peace and relief around your choice.
4. Say All Your Options Out Loud
This is the easiest and fastest way to see how you feel about your options. Your GPS will alert you to the options that are not for you and turn you to peace!
Don't get caught up in confusion and Indecision. Follow your GPS, keep It simple, and review your options.
You Are Worth It!
P.S. Check out more info on our Friday Facebook Live Video! Kiersten and Meghan chat every Friday at 2pm about different topics. This week they expand on decision making during a pandemic.
Sanity or Safety? Decision Making During a Pandemic
#1: Blood Sugar Crash
If you feed your kids or yourself a bunch of candy or sugar, you might get hyped for a bit... But the blood sugar crash with mood swings are SURE to follow.
#2 Too Much Caffeine
I love myself some coffee... that’s for sure! But I have noticed if I get too much caffeine without doing something active, I am sure to feel more nervous and anxious as my cortisol rises.
#3 Too Much Sitting
Let’s not trap ourselves without movement for such long stretches. We were not made to do this. Try standing up more often, walking with a pep in your step, or letting the sun touch your skin for a minute or two outside!
Start where you are right now with your fitness journey and take steps in the direction you want to go with our fitness audio course and step by step help.
We are worth it!
Do you feel overwhelmed often? Try these simple and easy ways to shift your emotional and physical response to stress!
1. Use Compassion
If you feel overwhelmed and anxious, say out loud “I understand! We'll figure it out!” This will help stop your body from going into high adrenaline mode.
2. Open up the junk drawer in the kitchen
Take everything out and sort it.
3. Clean out your fridge and organize
Just like the junk drawer!
4. Have some Vitamin C
You need more nutrients under stress. I don’t know about you but that citrus smell and taste is an attention grabber in a good way!
5. Move your body
Dance it out to your favorite song or take a walk or run around the block to help you feel better.
These energy shifters can take you from panic to peace in less than five minutes.
We go more in depth on these topics on our weekly Facebook Live Show. Also if you want step by step help with either changing your story when it comes to your attraction and relationships or your relationship with fitness and working out— we have courses for you!
You are worth It!
-Kiersten & Meghan
Dating during a pandemic can be overwhelming and anxiety provoking. Instead of stressing about the process, use this as a time to reset!
1) Be aware of bad dating habits.
As a former crash and burn dating junkie I can relate to this. Not meeting up physically & being forced to date through face time and video chat helps you to make the dating process a marathon not a sprint. Embrace the slow and steady route.
2) Talk to people you are not necessarily interested in.
I know this seems counterintuitive but it helps you practice being your true authentic self in a relaxed way. When you eventually do feel a spark with someone you have some practice at being yourself and dropping any showboat routine.
3) Have fun!
If the thought of dating during a pandemic is too overwhelming, don't do it! Commit to only doing things that bring you a sense of joy. If it makes you feel anxious and stressed out, wait until you are in a better head space and get back in the game.
YOU ARE WORTH IT!
For more on this topic, visit Changeyourstoryllc.com and download our Attraction and Relationship course. You will gain insight and confidence to not only your romantic relationships, but ALL of your relationships.
Who feels better when they have great energy?! Me. Me. Me and I can always feel it when I’m around people at a workout or around someone in general what their energy is! If we are being honest, we know that this makes a difference right? The energy we bring to a situation and what vibes other people are bringing makes a difference!
I wanted to share these 3 ways we can do to get and keep us Fired Up!
How do you get and stay fired up?! Any hacks you practice to keep your mind right and pump you up to bring your best self to the situation?
You Are Worth It!
With the gyms closed, fear of all the unknown, and social distancing being our reality right now, it's easy to get in a head-spin of fear and negativity. But we don’t want to live in that place for long or often, right? The research tells us, and I think we all know deep down, that —getting stuck in that will erode and might even devastate our mental and physical health. But we, like always, have a choice of how we will react to our situation. If we will stay down or if we will rise? We have an opportunity to make the best out of this situation and we ALL have it in us to do so! So let’s get some strategy and tools to stay healthy, strong, and inspired when we are confined to our homes.
I would love to hear how this was helpful for you, or what you need help with when it comes to your health and fitness during this time. My desire is this gives you the spark of hope and encouragement that you need today. I want to help you stay healthy and strong during this time! We got this!
1. Invite, acknowledge and accept the feeling with open arms.
2. Accept the feeling without judgment. “Okay anger I see you and I hear you.”
3. Imagine you are hugging the feeling with acceptance and love as if you are greeting a dear friend.
4. Hold the acceptance until you feel a sense of calm and peace.
5. Rinse and repeat 🤣
You Are Worth It!
Get moving! Even just simple stretching can help the body and mind relax and give you an extra dose of patience and energy!
Drink Water! When we are busy and overwhelmed we tend to hydrate less. Make sure you get your 8 glasses of water a day to keep your mind alert and sharp! Dehydration can make us feel lethargic, depressed, and anxious.
Take 5! Simply stopping to close your eyes, putting your hand on your heart, and focusing on your breath can immediately help your body and mind relax. Don’t wait until you feel overwhelmed - Take 5 now!
You can THRIVE this holiday season with simple, easy techniques to keep you healthy and strong
You are worth it!
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How often do you recall something from the past that brings you a sense of guilt or shame?
Feelings of regret often flood us with guilt and shame causing us to feel an undercurrent of anxiety in every day life. The good news is you don’t have to live full of guilt and shame! You can CHANGE YOUR STORY and experience healing from the inside out.
Tips to Address Feelings of Guilt and Shame
1. Recall the specific event/relationship you are thinking of and let the uncomfortable feelings flood you.
2. Immediately begin to speak out loud as if you are the parent you wanted and needed at that time in your life (whether from childhood or adulthood).
3. Flood yourself with compassion and understanding by saying out loud, “I’m so sorry you felt that way. I'm so sorry you felt out of control, I understand and I have your back”.
4. Repeat steps 1 to 3 until you begin to feel a lift of the guilt and shame. Do this as often as you need to; side effects are peace, compassion and acceptance!
You are worth it!